What comes after best man?

The order of speeches is a choice, not a rule. Many couples still follow the classic sequence, but you are free to arrange it however you like.

The usual order begins with the couple themselves. The bride and groom may speak together or separately to welcome everyone. Next comes the best man, who usually follows with a lighter, funnier talk. After him, the father of the bride traditionally speaks, offering thanks and well wishes. The mother of the bride can also speak, and this is becoming more common. Finally, the parents of the groom may give a short speech.

If you have a different family shape, simply place the speakers who matter most to you. A single parent, a grandparent, or a friend can take any slot. Let the person hosting the speeches know your plan so the timing runs smoothly. Keep each talk short so the evening stays lively.

If your venue or religious setting has specific rules about who may speak, check with them in advance.