How to create a wedding budget?

Begin with a full list of everything a wedding can involve. Think about the venue, food, drink, clothes, rings, flowers, photography, music, stationery, transport and any legal fees. Add smaller items too, such as thank-you cards, hair and make-up, and gifts for your bridal party. It helps to write down every category before you set any numbers.

Next, talk honestly with your partner about what matters most. Maybe you both love live music, or a great meal, or being outdoors. Put the biggest share of your budget there. For everything else, be ready to trim or do without. You can also ask family if they want to contribute, but only if that feels comfortable. If they do, agree in writing what the money is for, so there are no surprises later.

Once you have a total, add a little extra for the things you have forgotten. Weddings always have small costs that appear near the end. Keep your budget in one place, whether that is a spreadsheet, a notebook or an app. Update it every week, and check it before you book anything. If a cost is higher than planned, decide together what to cut elsewhere. That way you stay in control and avoid stress as the day gets closer.