What is the traditional order of speeches at a UK wedding?

Short answer

The traditional order is father of the bride, groom, then best man. The father of the bride speaks first, welcoming guests and toasting the couple. The groom responds, thanking both families and the bridal party. The best man finishes with humorous stories and a toast to the couple.

In the UK, the classic order starts with the father of the bride. He welcomes guests, shares a few memories, and proposes a toast to the couple. Next, the groom speaks. He thanks the father of the bride, both sets of parents, and the bridal party. He may also give a small gift or thank you to his new spouse. Finally, the best man gives a speech. This is usually lighter in tone, with anecdotes and jokes, and ends with a toast to the couple.

Many couples now adapt this order. You might have both mothers speak, or the couple speak together. You can also swap the best man for a maid of honour. The key is to keep a flow: someone welcomes, someone thanks, someone toasts. If you change the order, tell your speakers in advance so they can link their content. Keep each speech short, around three to five minutes, so guests stay engaged. Always end with a clear toast so everyone knows when to raise their glass.