Who makes a speech at a wedding in the UK?

There is no legal requirement for speeches, but there is a common order that many couples follow. The parents of the couple usually speak first. This may be the father of the bride, the mother of the bride, or both parents together.

Next, the couple may speak. Some brides and grooms give one speech together, while others each give their own. This is a good moment to thank guests and families.

Then the bridal party speaks. The best man and the maid of honour are the most common, but any member of the bridal party may speak if the couple asks. Some couples also invite a sibling, a grandparent or a close friend.

The order can change to suit your family shape and your wishes. If you are a guest, wait for the host to invite you to speak. Some weddings have an open mic, others do not. If you are unsure whether you should speak, ask the couple or the person planning the day.