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A father's speech usually welcomes guests, thanks helpers, shares a short story about his daughter, offers advice and ends by proposing a toast to the couple.
Here is a simple shape you can follow. Start by welcoming everyone and thanking them for coming. Say a few words about the day and the venue if you like.
Next, thank anyone who helped plan the wedding. This might include the mother, the bridal party, grandparents or friends. Keep it warm and specific, but do not list every name unless you know the couple is happy with that.
Then share a short, kind story about your daughter. Choose something that shows her character and that most guests will enjoy. Avoid embarrassing moments or stories that only a few people know.
Offer a few lines of advice or a blessing for the couple. Speak to both of them, not just your daughter. End by asking everyone to raise a glass and proposing a toast to the newlyweds. Practise once out loud so you know where the pauses go.
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