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There is no set gift. Many fathers give a piece of jewellery, a handwritten letter, or a small sentimental item that reflects their relationship. The most meaningful gifts are personal, not expensive, and often given privately before the ceremony.
Traditionally, a father might give his daughter a piece of jewellery to wear as her "something borrowed" or "something new," such as a brooch, necklace or earrings. Others give a handkerchief, a charm for a bracelet, or a framed photo from childhood. A handwritten letter or card is often the most treasured gift, because it can be kept forever. Some fathers give a small gift that connects to a shared hobby, like a watch, a book, or a piece of art. If you are the father, think about what your daughter would value, not what tradition expects. Ask her partner or a close friend for ideas if you are unsure. The timing matters too. Give the gift in a quiet moment, perhaps after the ceremony or during photos, so she can react privately. Avoid giving anything that needs to be returned or that adds pressure, like a large financial gift. The best gift is your presence, your words and your support. If you are the daughter, you can gently suggest what you would love, so there is no guesswork. Remember, there is no rule. What matters is the thought behind it.
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