What not to include in a wedding speech?

A wedding speech is for everyone in the room, not just the couple or your close friends. Avoid references that only a few people will understand, such as nicknames, private anecdotes, or jokes about past relationships. Never bring up an ex-partner, even as a joke, as it can make the couple and their families uncomfortable. Steer clear of negative remarks about the wedding planning, the venue, the food, or the in-laws, as these can be taken the wrong way. Crude or sexual humour rarely works in a mixed audience and can make people squirm. Also avoid long lists of thank-yous that drag on, or reading a speech word for word from paper without looking up. Do not mention money, such as how much the wedding cost or what you paid for. If you are a guest or bridal party member, do not use the speech to announce your own news, such as an engagement or pregnancy, unless the couple has agreed. Keep the focus on the couple and their future. If you are unsure whether a story is appropriate, leave it out. A short, sincere speech is always better than a long, risky one.