What is the traditional order of speeches at a wedding in Ireland?

The Irish tradition usually starts with the father of the bride, who welcomes the guests, says something kind about his daughter and new son or daughter-in-law, and proposes a toast to the couple. Next is the best man, who speaks about the groom, shares a few light-hearted stories, and often toasts the bridesmaids. Finally, the groom responds, thanking the father, the best man, the bridesmaids, and both sets of parents, and he may toast the parents or the guests. In some Irish weddings, the maid of honour or a close friend also speaks, and the couple may speak together. The order is flexible, so you can adapt it. If the father is not present, a brother, uncle or the mother can take his place. The key is to keep each speech short, warm and respectful. In Northern Ireland, the same order is common, but you can check with your venue or celebrant if you want a more formal structure. The legal rules about who can marry do not affect speeches, so you are free to choose.