What order do speeches normally go in at a wedding?

The classic sequence starts with the father of the bride welcoming guests and welcoming the new son or daughter-in-law. The groom then responds, thanks both families and the wedding party, and toasts the brides. The best man follows with a tribute to the groom and a cheeky toast to the brides.

Modern weddings often adapt this flow to suit the couple's preferences. You might place the groom's speech first, or invite the maid of honour and mother of the bride to speak before the best man. Some couples hold a second round of shorter toasts later in the reception after dinner.

Whatever order you choose, confirm it with your venue or wedding planner so the catering and timing work smoothly. Let speakers know when they are due so nobody is left waiting or caught off guard. A short programme printed on the table or shared by your wedding website helps guests follow the evening.