Does the groom give a speech at a UK wedding?

Short answer

Yes, the groom usually gives a speech at a UK wedding, traditionally after the father of the bride and before the best man. But there is no legal requirement. Many couples now share speeches or choose a different order. It is entirely up to you.

In the UK, the groom's speech is a long-standing tradition. Traditionally, the father of the bride speaks first, then the groom, then the best man. The groom typically thanks both families, praises his partner, and proposes a toast.

However, wedding speeches are becoming more flexible. Many couples now speak together, or the bride gives a speech too. Some choose to have both sets of parents speak, or skip parental speeches altogether. There is no legal rule about who speaks or when. The only legal requirement is that you have two witnesses at the ceremony.

If you want a traditional order, that is fine. If you prefer something different, that is also fine. Talk to your partner and your families early, so everyone knows the plan and feels comfortable.

What matters most is that the speeches feel genuine and include the people you love. Guests appreciate warmth and honesty far more than strict tradition. So choose the order that works for you, and keep the tone kind and celebratory.