How much should the parents of the groom give as a wedding gift?

Short answer

There is no set amount for a gift from the groom's parents. Give what feels generous and comfortable for your budget and your relationship with the couple. A thoughtful, personal gift often matters more than the amount.

The parents of the groom are not expected to follow any fixed rule. In the UK, wedding gifts from parents vary widely, and the right amount depends on your finances, the size of the wedding, and what you have already contributed. Some parents help with a specific cost, such as the honeymoon or a wedding website, while others give a cash gift or something sentimental like a family heirloom.

If you have already helped pay for part of the wedding, you might choose a smaller gift or no gift at all, and that is completely fine. The couple will appreciate any gesture that comes from the heart. Talk to the other set of parents if you want to avoid awkwardness, but do not feel pressured to match anyone.

A useful approach is to decide a figure you are happy with, then think about what the couple truly need. A contribution towards a big purchase, a voucher for a special experience, or a framed photo from the engagement can all feel meaningful. The most important thing is to give with warmth and without expectation. If you are unsure, it is always kind to ask the couple directly what would help them most.