How do you handle a plus-one who is a translator or interpreter?

Your plus-one is there to celebrate, not to work. If they offer to translate for other guests, the right move is to have the couple or a planner decide in advance. A wedding is a professional event for everyone involved, and guests should not be expected to provide language services without clear agreement.

If the couple needs an interpreter, they should hire one directly and book the role before sending invitations. This ensures the person is paid, briefed and positioned where they can help without disrupting the day. It also means the interpreter is not singled out as a plus-one whose presence depends on a last-minute need.

If a guest offers to help, the couple should thank them warmly and say they will consider it. Do not assume they will do it, and do not let them feel pressured. Some guests may decline because they want to enjoy the celebration, and that is perfectly reasonable.

A few things to keep in mind:

• Ask the couple or planner before arranging any interpreting work.
• Confirm whether the role is paid or voluntary.
• Agree where and when the interpreter will work.
• Make sure the interpreter has a seat and a break.

If a religious ceremony has specific language rules, check with the register office or the place of worship, as these can vary.