How do you handle a plus-one who is a person who is pregnant or has a baby?

If your plus-one is pregnant, ask them how they would like to be supported. Some people enjoy the celebration and may want to sit near the door or avoid standing for long periods. Others may feel unwell and prefer to leave early. Respect their wishes without making assumptions.

If they wish to bring a baby, confirm with your venue and caterer whether children are allowed and whether there is a safe space for feeding or nappy changes. Some venues have restrictions on minors, and this can vary, so check with the register office or place of worship if your ceremony is in a religious building. Make sure there is somewhere quiet and comfortable for a baby if one is present.

Do not pressure anyone to stay late or to participate in activities that are not suitable. A short, comfortable evening is often better than a long one. Your welcome matters more than the schedule.