How do you handle a plus-one who is a person who is a student or on a low income?

The most important thing is that every guest feels welcome, no matter what their income is. When you invite someone to bring a plus-one, think about how much the day might cost them before they even arrive. Students and friends on tight budgets often worry about travel, accommodation, a new outfit and a gift all at once.

You can help by being open and practical. If your wedding is in a different town, look for venues with good train links and mention nearby hotels that suit different budgets. Some couples offer a room block at a fair rate, or a place to stay with family. This is a generous gesture but never feel you must provide it.

On the day, keep things simple and relaxed. A seated meal with a set menu costs less than a buffet or a long drinks reception, and it helps your guest plan their spending. Avoid games or activities that require extra money. When you write your invitation, be clear about what is included so there are no surprises.

Never ask about a guest's finances and never make a comment about what they wear or drive. A warm welcome means more than any extra treat you could offer.