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Keep the legal ceremony simple at a register office or approved venue, then celebrate with a small gathering. Choose a weekday, limit guests, and ask friends to help with food, flowers and music.
Start with the legal essentials. In England and Wales, you both give notice at your local register office, and the ceremony can take place at a register office, approved venue or registered religious building. In Scotland, you submit a marriage notice and can marry almost anywhere the registrar agrees. In Northern Ireland, notice goes to the registrar where the wedding happens. A simple ceremony with two witnesses is all you need legally.
For the celebration, think about what matters most to you. A smaller guest list is the quickest way to cut costs. A weekday or morning ceremony often costs less than a Saturday evening. Ask a talented friend to make the cake, another to take photos, and a third to play music. Borrow decorations, buy flowers from a market, and choose a venue that lets you bring your own food and drink. You can also skip the sit-down meal and serve a buffet, afternoon tea or a barbecue.
Remember, a religious ceremony on its own is only legally binding in certain circumstances, so check with your place of worship or the register office. Humanist ceremonies are not legal on their own in England and Wales, so many couples add a short civil ceremony. Check GOV.UK for the current rules. Your wedding can be simple, warm and full of meaning without spending a fortune.
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