What if I can't afford to get married?

First, know that the legal part of marriage is very simple and does not have to cost much. You only need to give notice and attend a short ceremony with two witnesses. You can wear everyday clothes, and you do not need rings, flowers, or a reception. Many couples choose to have a small legal ceremony now and a bigger celebration later, perhaps on an anniversary. That is completely normal and practical. If money is tight, talk to your partner about what matters most to you both. Maybe it is the vows, maybe it is a meal with close family. Set a tiny budget and stick to it. You can ask a friend to be your photographer, borrow a dress or suit, and make your own cake. You can hold a picnic in a park or a meal at home. You do not have to follow any tradition. If you need help with costs, some places of worship or community centres offer low-cost ceremonies, but check with them directly. You can also delay the wedding until you have saved enough, but remember that a legal marriage does not require a big event. The most important thing is the commitment you make to each other. Do not feel pressured by what others do. Your wedding can be as simple or as elaborate as you choose, and it is still a real marriage.