What percentage of invited guests actually attend a wedding?

Short answer

I cannot give you an exact percentage for attendance. The number of guests who turn up depends on many factors, so you should plan your headcount based on your own invitations and RSVPs.

Every wedding is different, and the number of people who attend will vary widely. Some couples find that nearly everyone they invite comes along, while others find that a smaller group actually shows up. This depends on where your guests live, how much travel is involved, and when the wedding falls.

The best way to plan is to ask your guests to confirm their attendance in advance. Send out your invitations early and give them a clear deadline for replying. This gives you a reliable figure to work with for food, drinks and seating. You can then follow up with anyone who has not replied as that date approaches.

Think about the practicalities that might stop people from coming. Some guests may have work commitments, family obligations or health concerns that make travel difficult. Others may simply be unable to afford the trip. None of this reflects on your relationship with them.

When you finalise your numbers, it is wise to allow a small buffer for last minute changes. However, do not assume that a large number of no responses will turn into arrivals. Base your planning on the replies you actually receive rather than on any general rule.