What is poor etiquette?

Poor etiquette usually comes from carelessness rather than bad intent. It can still cause stress on a day when the couple wants to relax.

Common examples include turning up late to the ceremony or reception without telling anyone. Wearing the wrong outfit, like white at a wedding, can distract from the couple and upset the bridal party. Bringing an uninvited plus-one is a serious breach, as the couple plans seating and meals carefully.

Other things to avoid:

• Posting photos of the ceremony before it ends or sharing them without permission.
• Drinking too much and becoming disruptive to staff or other guests.
• Criticising the menu, venue or decorations in front of the hosts.
• Asking the couple personal questions or making the day about your own problems.
• Leaving early without saying goodbye to anyone.

If you realise you have slipped up, a quiet apology goes a long way. Most couples care more about your presence than small mistakes. The goal is to help the day run smoothly for everyone.