What are poor manners?

Short answer

Poor manners at a wedding include not replying to the invitation, bringing uninvited guests, making speeches without being asked, and getting drunk. It also means ignoring the dress code, using your phone during the ceremony, and complaining about the food or venue. Be kind, punctual, and gracious.

Poor manners at a UK wedding usually start before the day itself. The biggest one is not replying to the invitation by the date given. That makes planning impossible for the couple. Another is bringing a partner or children when they were not invited. Always check the invitation carefully and stick to what it says.

On the day, poor manners include arriving late to the ceremony, especially if you miss the entrance. Using your phone during the ceremony is rude, as is talking or laughing loudly. If you are asked to give a speech, keep it appropriate and not too long. If you are not asked, do not grab the microphone.

Other examples are ignoring the dress code, drinking too much, and being rude to staff or other guests. It is also poor manners to post photos online before the couple has shared their own. And never complain about the food, the venue, or the weather. The couple has worked hard to host you. Your job is to celebrate with them and thank them warmly before you leave.