What are some common etiquette practices?

Short answer

Common etiquette practices include RSVPing on time, arriving punctually, dressing appropriately, offering a gift, thanking the host, and being gracious in speech. At a wedding, these practices show respect for the couple and make the day run smoothly for everyone.

At a UK wedding, a handful of etiquette practices are widely expected. First, RSVP by the date on the invitation. The couple need final numbers for the venue and caterer, and chasing guests is awkward for everyone. Second, arrive on time. The ceremony start time is fixed, and the registrar or officiant will not wait. Aim to be seated ten minutes early.

Third, dress appropriately. Follow the dress code on the invitation, whether that is morning dress, lounge suit or smart casual. If you are unsure, ask the couple or a member of the bridal party. Fourth, bring a gift if you can. It does not need to be expensive. A card with a heartfelt note, a contribution to a gift list, or a bottle of something you know they like are all thoughtful. If you cannot afford a gift, your presence and a warm message are enough.

Fifth, thank the couple. A short note, a word on the day, or a message afterwards is always appreciated. Sixth, be gracious in your speech. Avoid telling the couple about other weddings you preferred, or commenting on the cost of the day. Finally, follow the couple's wishes. If they ask for no photos during the ceremony, or no confetti, respect that. These practices are not about being stiff. They are about making the day easier and happier for the people who invited you.