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Common mistakes include choosing a style without asking your bridesmaids, ignoring their body shapes and comfort, leaving alterations too late, and picking a colour that clashes with the venue or season. Also avoid mismatched fabrics and forgetting to budget for shoes and accessories.
One big mistake is choosing dresses without consulting your bridesmaids. Everyone has different shapes, sizes and comfort levels, so a style that looks great on one person may not suit another. Ask for their input on length, neckline and sleeve options. Another common error is ignoring the practicalities of the day. Think about the season, the venue and whether the dresses will be comfortable for dancing, sitting and moving around.
Alterations are often left too late. Book fittings at least six to eight weeks before the wedding, and make sure everyone has their final measurements taken close to the date. A dress that is too tight or too long will cause stress on the day. Also, avoid choosing a colour that clashes with the venue décor or the season. A deep burgundy might look beautiful in autumn but feel heavy in a summer garden.
Another mistake is mixing fabrics without thinking. Different materials can photograph differently and may not match in tone. Finally, remember the extras. Shoes, jewellery and undergarments can add up, so discuss these with your bridesmaids early and agree on a budget that works for everyone. Being open and kind from the start will make the whole process much smoother.
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