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Guests should watch quietly, avoid taking photos unless invited, and let the couple and witnesses focus on signing the marriage contract. Your presence shows support, not participation.
The ketubah is signed before the main ceremony, usually with the couple, witnesses and sometimes family members present. If you are invited to watch, find a quiet place to stand or sit near the signing table. Keep your voice low and switch your phone to silent.
Do not rush forward or crowd the table. The witnesses must sign freely and without distraction, so give them space. If you are not a witness, you do not need to sign anything. Your role is simply to be present and witness the couple's commitment.
Taking photos can be tricky here. Some families welcome pictures, while others prefer no photography during this sacred moment. Follow the couple's wishes or ask a member of the bridal party before using your camera or phone.
After the signing, the ketubah is often displayed at the reception. You may be invited to admire it, but let the couple or their family lead the way. If you are unsure what to do, a quiet smile and a warm presence are always welcome.
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