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The ceremony typically begins with the bedeken, moves to the chuppah for vows and blessings, and ends with the ring exchange and breaking of a glass.
Many ceremonies start with the bedeken, where the groom veils the bride. This moment reflects the story of Jacob and Rachel. Guests gather and the couple is led to the chuppah. Music often accompanies the procession. Under the canopy, the officiating rabbi recites the Seven Blessings. The couple exchanges vows and the groom places a ring on the bride's finger.
Next comes the signing of the ketubah, the marriage contract. Then the groom breaks a glass, usually under his foot. This act commemorates destruction and reminds guests that even in joy we remember. The couple is then blessed and escorted from the chuppah, often with dancing.
The religious ceremony is followed by a reception with food, music and more dancing. For UK couples, the religious service does not replace legal registration. You will need to complete the marriage through a register office or approved venue, or ensure your building and officiant are authorised. Check the current rules on GOV.UK or speak with your local register office and rabbi to avoid any gaps in your legal status.
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