When is the ketubah signed and who needs to sign it?

Short answer

The ketubah is signed before the ceremony, usually on the same day, in a private room with just the couple, witnesses and the officiant. The couple, two witnesses and often the rabbi or cantor sign it. The exact requirements vary, so check with your officiant.

The ketubah is a Jewish marriage contract. It is not signed during the ceremony itself, but beforehand, typically a few hours before the chuppah. This is a calm, private moment, away from the main celebration. It is often one of the most meaningful parts of the day.

The people who sign depend on the tradition you follow. In most Jewish communities, the couple signs the ketubah. You also need two witnesses who are not related to the couple and who are considered observant enough by your officiant. The rabbi or cantor often signs too, as does the person who writes the ketubah, if it is handwritten.

In Orthodox weddings, the groom usually signs and the bride does not, but she is present. In Reform and Liberal weddings, both partners sign. The witnesses must be Jewish in some traditions, but in others they can be anyone. Always ask your officiant what is needed for your specific ceremony.

Because the ketubah is a legal document in Jewish law, it is important that everyone signs it correctly and at the right time. Your officiant will guide you. If you are having a civil ceremony as well, the ketubah is separate from the legal marriage schedule, so it does not affect your legal status in the UK.

If you are unsure about any detail, speak to your rabbi or celebrant well in advance. They will explain the customs for your community.