What to say during a tea ceremony?

The words you say are usually simple and heartfelt. Most couples begin by offering the tea with both hands and saying something like 'Please accept my tea'. After the elder drinks, you say 'Thank you for your blessing'.

You can add your own words if you wish. Many couples thank their parents for their love and support, or welcome their new in-laws into the family. Keep it brief so the ceremony flows well, especially if you have many relatives to serve.

If you are nervous, practice with your partner beforehand. You might write the phrases on cards or rehearse them at home. Some couples choose to say things in both English and Chinese, which can be a lovely touch for bilingual families.

If you are unsure about the right words for your specific tradition, ask your elders or check with your place of worship. The meaning matters more than getting every word perfect.

Tip: Rehearse the phrases with your partner so you can both speak clearly and calmly.