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A Chinese tea ceremony is a traditional ritual where the couple serves tea to their parents and elders as a sign of respect and gratitude.
The tea ceremony is a meaningful part of many Chinese weddings. It honours the couple's families and thanks them for their love and support. The bride and groom kneel or bow to their parents and elders while serving them tea.
During the ceremony, the couple serves tea to their parents first. They may also serve grandparents, aunts and uncles. Each elder receives a cup of tea and often gives a blessing in return. Some elders respond by giving red envelopes with money or jewellery.
The order of serving is important. The groom's family is usually served first, followed by the bride's family. This reflects traditional family customs. The couple may change outfits between the two sides of the family.
This ritual brings both families together and marks the couple's acceptance into each other's families. It is a beautiful moment that many guests find touching. If you are attending, watch quietly and smile. Join in the applause when the elders give their blessings.
Modern couples often adapt the ceremony to fit their own style. Some include readings or music. The core meaning remains the same: respect, gratitude and family unity.
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