What is the structure of a wedding ceremony?

Every ceremony has a core structure, even if the details differ. It starts with a welcome and opening words that set the tone. The couple then exchanges vows, which are the promises they make to each other. Rings are exchanged next, or placed nearby if they are not handed over during the vows. The officiant makes the legal declaration and pronounces the couple married. Two witnesses must be present and sign the marriage schedule or document on the day.

Around this core, couples add personal touches. Readings, poems, songs and musical performances can be included, though civil ceremonies cannot have religious content. Some couples include a unity ritual such as lighting a candle or planting a tree. Religious ceremonies may include prayers, hymns, a sermon or communion. Humanist ceremonies in England and Wales are not legally binding on their own, so couples usually add a civil ceremony at the register office. Religious ceremonies such as a nikah are only legally binding if held in a registered building with an authorised person present. Check with your register office or place of worship for the rules that apply to your ceremony.