What music is needed for a wedding ceremony?

Short answer

For a wedding ceremony, you usually need music for three moments: the entrance, the signing of the register or schedule, and the exit. You can also have music during the welcome or while guests are seated. Choose songs that feel meaningful to you and suit the tone of your ceremony.

The music you choose sets the mood for the ceremony. Most couples pick a piece for the entrance, one for the signing, and one for the exit. You may also want background music as guests arrive and take their seats. Think about the pace of each moment. The entrance music should build anticipation, the signing music can be calm and reflective, and the exit music should feel joyful and uplifting.

If you are having a civil ceremony at a register office or approved venue, the registrar must approve all music. Civil ceremonies cannot include religious songs, hymns, or prayers. You can choose any non-religious song, poem, or instrumental piece. If you want a religious song, you will need a religious ceremony instead.

For a Church of England or Church in Wales wedding, the vicar or minister will guide you on suitable music. Hymns and organ music are traditional, but many churches allow other songs if they are appropriate. Check with your place of worship well in advance, as some have restrictions on recordings or live musicians.

For a humanist or belief ceremony in Scotland, you can choose any music you like. In England and Wales, humanist ceremonies are not legally binding on their own, so you may have a separate civil ceremony for the legal part. Always confirm the rules with your venue or celebrant.