What is the main purpose of a tea ceremony?

A Chinese tea ceremony is a way of honouring your parents and older relatives. By serving them tea, you thank them for their care and ask for their blessing on your union. It is one of the most meaningful parts of a Chinese wedding, whether you hold it before or after your legal ceremony.

In the UK, many couples adapt the tradition to fit their venue and schedule. You might serve tea to both sides of the family at your reception, or hold a smaller version at home before heading to the ceremony. Some couples include close relatives who cannot travel, while others keep it to grandparents and parents.

The ceremony is also about bringing families together. It gives everyone a chance to see you as a married couple and to welcome your partner into the family. If you are unsure about the details for your faith or culture, ask your elders or check with your place of worship.

Tip: Ask your parents which order they expect so you can plan the seating and timing.