What is the dress code for a tea ceremony?

Short answer

Wear something smart and comfortable, usually a red qipao or cheongsam for the bride and a suit or smart shirt and trousers for the groom. Guests should dress smartly in colours that avoid white.

The tea ceremony is a meaningful moment where you serve tea to your parents and elders as a sign of respect. Dressing well shows honour to your family and the occasion. For the bride, a red qipao or cheongsam is the traditional choice. Red brings luck and joy. Many brides choose a version that is easier to move in than a heavy wedding gown. You may also wear a Western-style dress if that feels more comfortable, but red is the most common and safest option.

The groom typically wears a suit or a smart shirt with trousers. A red tie or pocket square can tie your look to the theme. Some couples choose matching outfits for a coordinated look. Keep jewellery simple and comfortable, especially if you will be kneeling or bowing.

Guests should dress smartly. Avoid wearing white, as it is associated with funerals, and avoid overly casual clothes like jeans. Bright colours are welcome and celebrate the occasion. If you are unsure about what to wear, ask the couple or the family hosting the ceremony.

If you are combining a tea ceremony with a legal wedding, remember that the legal part follows different rules depending on where you marry. Check GOV.UK, the register office or your place of worship for current requirements.