What is the walima ceremony?

The walima is a celebratory feast hosted by the groom to mark the marriage. It is a Sunnah practice and a joyful way to announce the union to family and friends.

In many Muslim communities the walima follows the nikah, which is the religious marriage ceremony. It does not replace the legal registration required in the UK. If you are marrying in England, Wales or Northern Ireland, the marriage must be registered separately at a register office or in a building registered for marriages with an authorised person present. In Scotland, a humanist or religious celebrant can conduct a legal wedding, but you still need to submit notice in advance. Check the rules for your area and your place of worship, as they can vary.

The walima is often a large gathering. Some couples host it as a formal sit-down meal, while others prefer a more relaxed reception with food and music. It may be held at a home, a community hall, or a venue. You might invite everyone who attended the nikah, or extend the guest list to wider family and friends. The groom traditionally hosts, but many couples now share the hosting and costs. Some families combine the walima with other celebrations, such as a henna night or a post-wedding brunch.

If you are unsure about traditions in your own community, ask your parents or your imam. Customs differ across cultures, and there is no single way to hold the walima.