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Traditionally, the groom's best man gives him away. He stands with the groom at the front and often holds the rings until they are needed.
The best man usually gives the groom away. He stands beside the groom at the front and supports him throughout the ceremony. He also looks after the rings until the couple exchanges them.
This role has grown over time. The best man often gives a speech, organises the stag do, and helps the groom get ready on the day. He is a key member of the wedding party.
If the groom does not have a best man, another close friend or family member can take the role. A brother, a cousin, a father or a very good friend can all step in.
The important thing is that the person standing with the groom feels comfortable and knows what to do. If you are unsure, give them a quick rundown of the day so they know when to hand over the rings and when to speak.
Your wedding party should reflect who supports you most. There is no fixed rule, and you can adapt it to fit your family and friends.
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