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The groom's parents usually sit in the front pew and stand when the couple enters, but the exact order depends on your ceremony type and venue. Ask your celebrant or registrar for the plan.
In a traditional church or register office ceremony, the groom's parents are seated first, usually in the front row on the right-hand side. They take their seats before the bride's parents and the wedding party. When the music starts and the couple enters, everyone stands. The parents sit down again once the couple reaches the front.
At a humanist or celebrant-led ceremony, the order is often more flexible. Your celebrant will share a draft programme and you can adjust seating and standing moments to suit your family shape and beliefs. Some couples invite parents to walk in with them, while others keep parents seated.
Religious services may include specific moments, such as the giving away or a special prayer, where parents are acknowledged. If you are unsure about any part, ask your registrar, celebrant or the place of worship. Rules can vary by venue and faith.
- Arrive early and confirm seating with the venue
- Stand when the couple enters and sit when asked
- Follow the order your celebrant or registrar shares
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