What is the tradition of 'who gives this bride' in a wedding ceremony?

The phrase appears in traditional Christian vows. It asks the father or another family member to give the bride away. In the past it reflected legal and social ideas about women moving from one family to another.

Today most couples adapt or drop it. You might ask both parents, a single parent, a step-parent, a grandparent or a close friend. Some couples say nothing at all and walk in together. Others invite everyone to stand and welcome the couple instead.

If you are planning a mixed-faith or multicultural wedding, you can choose a line that fits your culture. Some traditions have their own blessing or presentation words. Speak with your officiant about what is allowed in your service.

Whatever you choose, make sure both families understand the wording. This avoids awkward moments and keeps the focus on your commitment to each other.