Who gives the bride away when the father is deceased?

The person who gives the bride away is a personal choice, not a legal one. Many people turn to their mother, who may have played a central role in their life. Others ask a sibling, grandparent, aunt or uncle to walk them down the aisle. Some choose a close friend or mentor who has supported them through life.

If you have step-parents, you might walk with one or both, or have them stand together at the front. Blended families often find creative ways to honour everyone without making anyone feel left out. You could also walk alone, which is a powerful statement of independence and love.

Religious ceremonies may have customs about who escorts the bride, so ask your place of worship if you are unsure. Church of England and Church in Wales weddings usually need banns read, or a licence. Humanist ceremonies are not legally binding on their own in England and Wales, so couples usually add a civil ceremony. Check GOV.UK for the current position. Whatever you decide, tell your chosen person and your ushers in advance so the processional runs smoothly.