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What should a bride say in her speech to her groom?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For brides

Short answer

Speak from the heart about what you love and admire in him, share a personal memory, and thank him for being your partner. Keep it warm, honest, and about your life together.

Start by thanking your guests for coming and for the effort they have made to celebrate with you. Then turn to your groom. Say what drew you to him and what you love about him now, not just his looks but his kindness, humour, or the way he makes you feel safe. Share one specific memory that sums up your relationship, something small and true, like the first time you cooked together or a silly joke only you two understand. Tell him what marrying him means to you and what you look forward to, whether that is building a home, travelling, or simply growing old together. You do not need to be poetic or funny. A few sincere sentences will mean more than a long list of compliments. End by raising a glass to him and to your future. If you feel nervous, practise out loud and keep a note card with just a few key words. Remember, everyone in the room is on your side and wants you to enjoy this moment.

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