What should the father of the groom say in a speech?

The father of the groom traditionally speaks early, often after the father of the bride, but there are no fixed rules. His main job is to welcome guests, especially the bride's family, and to say something personal about his son. A short, affectionate story from childhood works well, as does a compliment to the bride and her family. He can mention how proud he is, how the couple met if he knows the story, and what he wishes for them. Avoid long lists of achievements or embarrassing tales. End by raising a glass to the couple, inviting everyone to join. If he feels nervous, he can keep it to three or four sentences. The tone should be warm and generous, not competitive. In some families, the father of the groom also thanks guests for travelling, and acknowledges anyone who could not attend. He does not need to mention money, gifts, or future grandchildren unless the couple is happy with that. The speech should last no more than three or four minutes, and it should always finish with a clear toast to the couple's health and happiness.