Who walks in first, mother of bride or groom?

The order of the entrance is entirely up to you. Tradition often puts the groom's mother first, then the bride's mother, but many couples now mix this up. You might seat both mothers before the ceremony starts, or have them walk in together. Consider what feels respectful and comfortable for your families. If one mother is a grandparent's carer, or if you have step-parents involved, you may want to adjust the order. The key is to tell your ushers and the person coordinating the music exactly who goes when. Write it down and share it with everyone. That way no one is left waiting at the door. You can also have both mothers walk in with a partner or a close relative. There is no legal requirement about who walks in first. The registrar or officiant will simply wait until everyone is seated. So choose an order that makes your families feel included and calm.