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Yes, you should generally offer a plus-one to a guest travelling from abroad. It is kind and practical, since they will be away from their own support network.
When someone flies in from overseas, they are often far from friends and family. A plus-one makes the day much more comfortable for them and removes the awkwardness of sitting alone.
You should think about your budget and venue space first. If you can comfortably afford and seat another person, offering a plus-one is the generous choice. It also means your guest can travel with someone who knows them, rather than arriving completely on their own.
Be clear about who the plus-one is for. You can say the invitation is for them and a guest, or name the specific partner if you know them. This avoids confusion on the day.
If you cannot offer a plus-one, explain why gently. You might say you are keeping the day intimate or that costs are tight. Most guests travelling from abroad will understand, especially if you treat them warmly throughout the event.
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