Short answer
No, it is not rude. Couples are allowed to set their own guest list and budget, and many do not offer plus-ones to everyone.
It is completely acceptable to invite people without a plus-one. Your wedding is your day, and you have the right to decide who attends. Budget, venue size and family wishes all play a part in how many guests you can invite.
Many couples only offer plus-ones to people in long-term relationships, married couples or members of the bridal party. Single friends may be invited on their own, and that is fine. Your guests will understand if you explain your reasons.
If you are worried about a guest feeling left out, you can let them know in advance. A quick message saying the wedding is adults only or that you are keeping the list small helps avoid awkwardness. Most people will respect your decision once they understand it.
The key is to be consistent. If you offer plus-ones to some single guests but not others, it can look unfair. Set one clear rule and apply it to everyone.
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