Do most people get a plus-one at a wedding?

The answer depends on the couple's budget, venue size and how close they are to you. Many couples keep plus-ones to people who are in a steady relationship, or to members of the wedding party. Single friends and work colleagues are often invited by name only, especially if the guest list is tight.

If you are unsure whether you can bring someone, check your invitation carefully. An invitation addressed to you alone means just you. If your partner's name is on the envelope or there is a line for a guest, a plus-one is included. Never assume you can bring someone just because you have a partner.

If you would like to bring a date, ask the couple politely. Say you understand if they cannot accommodate it, and do not ask more than once. Some couples have space for a few extra guests but cannot open the list to everyone. Being gracious about their decision keeps friendships intact.

If you are the couple deciding, be clear on your policy. Tell your wedding party and close friends early so no one feels left out.