Should you give a plus-one to a guest who is elderly or widowed?

Most couples find that a companion makes a big difference for older guests, especially if they are widowed or live alone. A plus-one can ease travel, give someone to talk to during the meal and help them feel included.

Before you decide, think about what will make them happiest. Some widowed guests would rather bring a close friend or a child than a stranger. Others may prefer to come with a family member. Ask them what they would enjoy most rather than assuming.

Keep these points in mind when making your choice:

• Offer the invitation directly to the guest so they can choose who comes.
• Be clear whether the companion is invited to the whole day or just the reception.
• If budget or space is tight, a warm invitation and a kind note can still make them feel valued.

If a guest cannot attend with a companion, a follow-up call or a small visit shows you care. The aim is that everyone feels welcome without anyone feeling left out.