Short answer
No, you do not have to give a plus-one to a teenager or young adult. It depends on their age, your relationship and whether the event is adults only.
Young guests are often invited as part of a group, such as a school friend or a cousin. A plus-one is not expected unless you know they have a partner or you want them to bring someone.
Think about the age and maturity of the guest. A teenager may prefer to dance with friends rather than sit with an unfamiliar adult. A young adult might appreciate a partner if they are in a serious relationship.
Decide early whether your wedding is adults only. If it is, say so clearly on the invitation so parents and young guests know what to expect. This avoids awkward conversations later.
If you allow young guests to bring a date, make sure you know them or at least know their name. This helps with seating and keeps the day running smoothly for everyone.
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