Should you give a plus-one to a guest who is a bridesmaid or groomsman?

Short answer

Yes, members of the bridal party should be offered a plus-one or an invitation for their partner. They are working hard on your day.

Bridesmaids and groomsmen often spend months helping with planning, fittings and rehearsals. They may also need travel and accommodation, and they will be away from their own partners for much of the day. Offering them a plus-one is a thoughtful way to show your gratitude.

Many couples invite a bridesmaid or groomsman's partner by name rather than as a generic plus-one. This makes them feel included and valued as individuals. It also means you know who will be sitting with whom on the day.

If your budget is limited, consider inviting partners only to the evening reception rather than the full day. Alternatively, you can offer a plus-one to everyone in the wedding party while keeping single guests without partners to a minimum. Consistency matters here so no one feels treated differently.

If a member of the wedding party is in a serious relationship, you should normally invite their partner. If you are unsure about their relationship status, ask them directly or check with your register office or place of worship for local guidance.