How do I find a wedding website if I'm a bridesmaid or groomsman?

The simplest way is to ask the couple. They will have the link and any password needed to view the site. Many couples put the website address on the save the date or invitation, so check those first. If you have lost the invitation, look in your email inbox or message history. The couple may have sent a group message to the bridal party with the link. If not, ask the best person, maid of honour, or another bridesmaid or groomsman. They may have it saved. You can also search for the couple's names and the word wedding online, but many sites are private and need a password. If the site is private, the password is often something meaningful to the couple, like a pet's name or the date. If you still cannot find it, contact the couple with a friendly note. They will be happy to help. Do not worry about being a bother. They want you to have the details for the ceremony and reception.