How do you handle a plus-one who is a person from a different culture or faith?

Short answer

Welcome them as you would any guest and ask if they have any dietary, dress or prayer needs. Do not single them out or make their background the focus.

Invite them warmly and include them in the usual events. When you collect dietary information, ask everyone the same question so no one feels marked out. A guest may need halal, kosher, vegetarian or other food, or may wish to pray at certain times. Ask them privately what they need.

If your wedding includes religious or cultural rituals, explain them simply to all guests. This helps everyone feel included and avoids confusion. You might add a short note to the order of service. If your guest wants to take part in a ritual, ask them first whether they would like to.

Dress codes can be a surprise for some guests. If you have a dress code, mention that modest or traditional clothing is welcome. Do not assume a guest will not fit your theme because of their culture or faith.

If you are unsure about how a ritual works or what a guest needs, ask them directly. Most people are happy to share. For legal or religious details, rules can vary, so check GOV.UK, your register office or your place of worship.