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It is traditional for the bride to use her maiden name on the invitation, but you can use whatever name you prefer. Many couples now use both names or just their full names. The key is to be clear and consistent.
Traditionally, the bride's maiden name appears on the wedding invitation, especially if her parents are hosting. This is because the invitation formally announces the marriage, and the bride's name before marriage is used to identify her. However, this is not a legal requirement, and modern etiquette is flexible.
Many couples now choose to use both partners' full names, or just their first names, especially if they have been living together or have different preferences. If the bride is changing her name after the wedding, the invitation can still use her maiden name, as the marriage certificate will record the change. If she is keeping her name, she might use her current name throughout.
The most important thing is to be clear and consistent. If you are unsure, follow the style that feels right for you and your family. You can also ask your parents or the person hosting the wedding for their input. There is no legal rule about names on invitations, so you are free to choose what feels comfortable.
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