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You can use candles, books, fruit, greenery, lanterns, ceramics, or personal keepsakes instead of flowers. Choose items that match your theme and table size. The key is to keep the centrepiece low enough for guests to talk across the table.
There are plenty of lovely alternatives to flowers that can still make your tables feel special. Candles in different heights create a warm, intimate glow, especially for evening weddings. You could group pillar candles on a wooden slice or use glass votives with tea lights.
Books stacked with a ribbon or a favourite quote can suit a literary theme. Seasonal fruit, like apples, lemons or pears, arranged in bowls or on stands adds colour and a natural feel. Greenery alone, such as eucalyptus or ivy trails, gives a fresh look without the cost of blooms.
Ceramic vases, lanterns, or vintage bottles filled with feathers, shells or dried grasses work well. Personal items, like old photographs, board games, or travel souvenirs, can spark conversation. For a rustic look, use logs, moss and fairy lights.
Remember to keep centrepieces low, under about 30 centimetres, so guests can see each other. If you want height, use tall, slim vases or candelabras that do not block sightlines. Check with your venue about any rules on open flames or hanging decorations.
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