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Table 1 is usually the top table, where the couple sits with their parents, the best man, the chief bridesmaid, and sometimes the officiant. In modern weddings, you can choose anyone you like for this table.
Traditionally, table 1 is the top table. The couple sits in the centre, with the bride's parents on one side and the groom's parents on the other. The best man and chief bridesmaid often sit nearby, and sometimes the officiant joins them. This arrangement lets the couple see everyone and be seen.
However, many couples now choose a different setup. You might prefer a sweetheart table just for the two of you, or you might seat your closest friends and siblings at table 1. There are no legal rules about seating, so you are free to decide what feels right.
If you have divorced or remarried parents, you may need to plan carefully. You can seat them at separate tables to avoid tension. The key is to make everyone feel comfortable and included. Talk to your partner and your families about what works best for your day.
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