Do you write a thank you note after attending a wedding?

Yes, you should write a thank you note after attending a wedding. It is not a strict rule, but it is a thoughtful way to show appreciation for the invitation, the meal, and the effort the couple put into hosting you. A short handwritten note is traditional, but a warm email or message is fine for most couples, especially if you are close. Mention something specific you enjoyed, such as the ceremony, the food, the speeches, or the dancing. If you gave a gift, you do not need to mention it again in this note, as the couple will send their own thank you card. If you stayed overnight at a venue or hotel, or if the couple arranged transport, it is especially polite to acknowledge that. Send your note within two to four weeks of the wedding, while the memory is still fresh. For a guest who attended alone, a note is still appreciated. If you are part of the bridal party, a note to the couple is a lovely touch, though not required.